Ignorance is like a double-edged sword. You may ignore people and keep many problems at bay; however, you may also lose great relationships and friendships. It feels worse when you?re at the receiving end of ignorance. How to combat this feeling? Well, instead of being all tit-for-tat, try dealing with it by other better ways.
Recall all your actions. Think about all the things you said to them. There would be something which they took offense about. If it?s clear, you know what the problem is and can approach them to apologise.
If someone is not receiving your calls, or has blocked you on their social media accounts then try getting in touch via mails or an SMS. If you?ve no clue why you?re being ignored, then you?ve every right to spam them and ask what the matter is. Avoid being creepy while doing so.
Okay, if things don’t work out even after spamming them and calling innumerable times, wait for some time. The ?waiting? sucks but there?s nothing you can do, since the other person isn?t reciprocating. Let time pass, maybe they?ll get back in touch.
Don?t show signs of shock or surprise while asking them about their whereabouts. Be cool and start a conversation you would normally start when you were friends. Don?t show your anger. Replace it with politeness.
If and only if the person truly knows you and the other person, should you ask them to step in. Ask them to play the messenger and tell them how bad you feel about being ignored by them.
Even if it?s not your mistake, do so to save the relationship. Your ego isn’t that important – your relationship is.
Try not to think about it because it makes you feel sad. It?s not like you?re not trying to reconcile. But if things aren?t working, that shouldn?t affect your life.
Try to get their attention by hanging out with new friends and post pictures on social media. They might get jealous and try to contact you. And when they do, do not ignore them.
When all of the above fails, it?s time to go the ?tit-for tat? way. You can?t be too nice and keep trying to get in touch with a person who doesn?t care. It?s better that your life moves on without people who want to make you feel bad all the time. You don?t deserve that.
